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How To Tell If It's Love or Lust

How To Tell If It's Love or Lust

 The difference between love and lust

The beginning stages of a relationship can be exciting and intense. If all goes well, what primarily begins as lust eventually develops into a deep sense of love. In the early stage of a relationship, when the sex hormones are raging, lust can fool you with blinders. You see what you want to see, rather than seeing the real person you're dating, flaws and all.

So has your relationship passed the lust phase and developed into the love phase? How can you tell? 

Lust Vs. Love

Lust: You're totally focused on a person's looks and body.

Love: You see your partner beyond their looks and are more attracted to their character. 

 Love vs. Lust

Lust: Sex trumps all.

Love: You enjoy being around each other, even without having sex.  

Lust: Your can't see your partner's flaws. 

Love: You can see your partner's flaws and love them, flaws and all.

 The difference between love and lust

Lust: You say what your partner wants to hear. 

Love: You feel comfortable speaking your truth. 

Lust: Silence is awkward. 

Love: Silence is comfortable. 

 The difference between love and lust

Lust: You don't feel comfortable including your partner in big life decisions. 

Love: You are motivated to be a better person for your partner and want to include them in everything. 

Lust: You only notice the big things. 

Love: You notice the little things. 

What did we miss? Tell us your signs for telling the difference between lust and love. Share with us in the comments below! 

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